thanx Dan!
about the modules, i have replied the last ticket advising them to do so
My dedi has the following:
Processor Celeron 1.7 Ghz
Memory 512 MB
Drive 1: 80 GB
Drive 2: 80 GB
Operating System: CentOS
keep in mind that i have 40 accounts more or less, from them about 5-6 are active and now only one or two have visitors(we r talking about 2-3 visitors per site, so at most rite now i have 10 visitors opening mysql connections)
the weird thing is that 1st day everything went great