Thank you both for the reply.
i opened up a ticket, & someone got back to me about this. I't's long story, but everything was solved by uploading the site to my /home/bowwowst/bowwowst/
(that's truncated bowwowstereo), and not the public_html folder. Everywhere i read here and the instructions with Fetch, said that's what i should do. Basically,
www.stayboystereo.com was pointing to a folder which had my directory in it.
It's been very confusing, as i bought and setup a domain, then had legal issues where i couldn't use the name that i wanted (bowwowstereo.com). Then to use the new domain that i bought, i created an addon, so....you know....i'm just stepping into the deep end here with hosting and everything that's involved.
I do thank you so much for your replies. You know when you're in the heat of the moment, you're lost, you want answers...one tends to get cranky.
I'm going to try not to do that and be a responsible member of the community.